朋友的奶奶去世多年，不过骨灰一直都在火葬场的骨灰堂里放着。他的父亲常年生病，每个月光药费就有3、4千元。本来是第一届建筑专业毕业的大学生，可是最终却混的丢了工作，穷困不已，重病缠身。据说他们家每年请家堂都不请他爷爷，只请奶奶。原因是他的父亲一直都恨自己的爷爷。不管怎么说一直都不顺利。
一次偶然的机会我回家上坟，说起来上坟的事情。他就告诉我说他的奶奶还没有入土为安，我就顺口说了一句那样子不好吧。于是他们家就打算找块地把他奶奶安葬了，那天是我和朋友还有他的妈妈取的火葬场骨灰室，刚一进去，我一直默念着“南无地藏王菩萨”据说地藏菩萨要在地狱中度众生，地狱不空誓不成佛！
我往前一看，朋友的妈妈的脚踩到一个没盖的下水道口上，我喊了一声！阿姨，小心脚下！她才意识到下面是下水道口，我们走了进去。里面的阴冷和安静让我的心里有些不安，具体怎么不安也说不出来，一排排的小格子，就是这许多生灵安息的地方吗？他们都曾经是活生生的人，在这个世界上有过爱有过情，有过喜怒哀乐，有过成败是非……而今只是这见方的小盒子里，还有上面发黄的照片，我的心里颇多感慨。
找到了他奶奶的骨灰盒，因为用胶带，没有剪刀，我就取下钥匙来。没想到的是居然网在了骨灰室里面。出来的时候，我们没有说话，匆匆的就去了坟地。黄河边上，朋友的父亲，把朋友爷爷还有另外两个奶奶的灵位都准备好了（原来朋友的奶奶是三姨太）朋友还单独抄写的《地藏菩萨本愿经》匆匆的下葬了。
年除夕的时候他们请家堂，把所有的人爷爷和奶奶们都请了回家。春节后朋友的父亲病情开始好转了，而且家里的生意也开始好了起来。他们说是安葬了奶奶的缘故，不过朋友的爷爷有三处坟，没有起出。但也算是入土为安了。冥冥中或许有一种力量在左右着什么吧！(鬼怪吧:http:///转载请保留!)
不过，子欲孝而亲不在的事情还在屡屡上演着。朋友要善待自己的父母，无论他们在世还是过世。他们生我养我，教我做人成材。
从呱呱坠地、咿呀学语、蹒跚学步，第一次含爸爸妈妈，开始上学、第一次离家，第一次远行……每一个人生的脚印都有父母殷勤关切的目光……
我们说起小孩子的纯洁，大家都一致认为不会说话的孩子都会看到我们所看不到的事物。有时候看到孩子或哭或笑，或者在说着什么，自己跟自己玩……葛经理就说他儿子过年回家的事。
葛经理的孩子每年回家过春节都会大哭一场，无缘无故的。仔细想想都是在请了家堂以后才会这样。因为我见过这孩子很聪明活泼，也很顽皮。用葛经理的话说这孩子很皮实，几乎从来就不哭。可是回家却每年都会哭。
原因是请了家堂，他猜测请了家堂以后，应该是一些仙人们看到自己家的后人，心里开心高兴才会看看或者爱护一下，往往会吓到孩子。所以很多地方不到满月的孩子，都要远离请家堂的房间。
或许真的是这样子吧。
Introduce:The friend's grandma dies old, do not cross ashes of the dead to be being put in the hall of ashes of the dead of crematory all the time. His father falls ill all the year round, every moon expenses for medicine has 3, 1000 yuan 4. It is the first undergraduate that builds professional finish school originally, but be mixed finally however lost the job, destitute unceasingly, serious defect pesters a body. Allegedly their home asks a hall every year not to ask his grandfather, ask a grandma only. The father that the reason is him hates his grandfather all the time. After all all the time not successful. Accidental opportunity my visit a grave to cherish the memory of the dead coming home, say the thing of visit a grave to cherish the memory of the dead. The grandma that he tells me to say him still is without be buried how, I said with respect to read smoothly that appearance is bad. Then their home looked for a ground to bury his grandma with respect to the plan, that day is the room of crematory ashes of the dead that the mother that I and friend still have him takes, just went in, I all the time silent is reading aloud " south Bodhisattva of king of the Tibet that do not have the ground " allegedly Tibetan Bodhisattva wants to spend all living creatures in hell, not empty oath does not become hell Buddha! I look forth, the foot of the friend's mom walks to to do not have the sewer mouth of the lid to go up, I cried! Aunt, below careful foot! She just realizes below it is sewer mouth, we went in. Inside gloomy and cold and quiet some are disturbed in the heart that lets me, specific how does uneasiness also say not to come out, the small grid of a platoon, be this place that a lot of the people rest? They once were real people, there has been love to had had feeling on this world, had had feeling, in the caddy that having …… of dispute of success or failure is this square only now, still have above the photograph with yellow hair, sigh with emotion more quite in my heart. Found the urn of his grandma, because use adhesive plaster, without scissors, I get off the key comes. Doing not have those who think of is unexpectedly the net was in inside room of ashes of the dead. When coming out, we did not talk, hasty went cemetery. On Yellow River edge, the friend's father, the spirit that friend grandfather still has additionally two grandmas ready (the grandma of former friend is 3 aunts too) the friend still copies alone " ground Tibet Bodhisattva wishs originally classics " hasty bury. Year the New Year's Eve when they ask a hall, all person grandfathers and grandma people asked come home. The father illness of the friend after the Spring Festival began to improve, and the business in the home also has begun to rise. They say was to bury the cause of the grandma, nevertheless the friend's grandfather has 3 to be in grave, did not rise piece. But also be be buried to was installed. Dim in probably a kind of force is in what controlling! (Phantom: HTtp:/// is reprinted ask reservation! ) nevertheless, child desire filial piety and the thing that is absent in person still is being performed time and again. The friend should be kind to his parents, no matter they are alive,still die. They
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